Who are we glad about?
Every other week I meet with a group of 8—10 women and men. We are all working in various nonprofits focused on serving others. We gather for 90 minutes to reflect together what our work is teaching us and what we might wish to learn. This trust circle includes quite a mix: a woman who coaches 4 adults who have cerebral palsy, another is a man who nurses a 97 year-old woman and who worries a lot about his family in India. Yet another is a retired physician doing infant and toddler medical check-ups, another reads to refugee toddlers who do not know English. Recently we were reflecting on a poem of Mary Oliver’s “At the Pond”. The last stanzas read so powerfully: “And this is what I think everything is about: the way I was glad for those five and two that flew away, And the way I hold in my ...